Why the way of communication affects the relationship between men and women.
The issue of why women and men are prone to argue with each other is something that has integrated me for as long as I recall. The connection between them is essential, particularly when they live together. Some people believe that men and women get along; others say “men and women are two peas in a pod”. Are they actually on good terms? It sounds good; however, there are three main different reasons why conflicts arise when men and women communicate; one of them is the use of the language, another one is different approaches in facing problems and the last one is the biological evidence. The primary cause of conflict between men and woman is the use of the language to negotiate. The way that women use the language is different compared to men. Women use language in order to gain confidence and trust. They try to cultivate enduring friendships based on the intimacy. In fact, when women are together, they usually like being updated with their friends (“So how did the date go with that and that?” “Did you ever discover that gift for your young man?”). Tannen in the article “Sex, Sight, and Conversation Why Men and Women Can’t Communicate“ points out that “It is the telling of secrets that makes them best friends. They learn to use language to negotiate intimacy” (212). In contrast, the main purpose of men when they use language is to negotiate their position. Men use it to negotiate with others and set up a hierarchical relationship in a group. For example, in some groups called “Fraternity” a key factor that men join a fraternity is for the leadership experience. It might increase their prestige and status. Tannen argues that since the main goal of men is to protect their autonomy and negotiate their status, men make use of the language in this way (212). So, these differences in the use of the language with different purposes can affect negatively the relationship between boys and girls. The second cause of conflict between men and woman is the different approaches in facing problems. Women deal with problems in a very different way than men. For the vast majority of girls, sharing a problem gives an opportunity to deepen, explore or build the relationship with the person they are talking with. For instance, Tannen illustrates this point by pointing out that “When a woman tells another woman about a problem, her friend typically explores the problem (“And then what did he say?” “What do you think you might do?”); expresses understanding (“I know how you feel”)” (212). Conversely, when men have a problem, they are more decisive in resolving it. For most of them, solving problems is a manner to demonstrate their competence. In many cases, when a couple is dressing up to go to a party, the woman is worried about what type of dress is more convenient; the woman picks up the first one; the man usually answers, “Yes, this is the best.” As a result, the woman gets mad because she needs add up all details. To illustrate this point, Tannen reports that when a man presents a direct solution to a trouble presented by a woman, she tosses it out with annoyance (212). Because women
neurotransmitters and how they affect our aggression; the hormonal mechanisms are the testosterone and cortisol chemicals. Testosterone is a hormone that is more concentrated in men than in women as it is a male sex hormone, it is thought to influence aggression from a young age onwards, due to its actions on the brain areas involved in controlling aggression. One research study that was done on testosterone involved measuring the testosterone found in the saliva of violent and non-violent criminals. This study…
answers; his research was controversial III. His statistics-laden volumes became bestsellers Most men and nearly half the women reported having had premarital sexual intercourse A. Most women and virtually ALL men reported having masturbated B. Women who reported masturbating to orgasm before marriage seldom had difficulties experiencing orgasm after marriage C. Some men and women said they had never had an orgasm D. Others reported having four or more a day The Sexual Response Cycle The four…
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questions 3 Definition of key terms 4 Methodology 5 Findings 5 People’s beliefs about menopause, including male and female 5 Men and women’s ideas about menopause 5 Physical and psychological aspects of menopause 7 Differences between men and women in menopause. 8 Good diet or healthy life style: do they help people to defer the advent of menopause or reduce the symptoms? 10 Discussion 11 Conclusion 12 Reference list 13 Abstract The report topic is attitudes about menopause…
Gender Identity PSY/340 Introduction “Both sociologists and psychologists define gender identity as the differing cultural and social roles that men and women inhabit, as well as the ways in which individuals experience those roles, both internally and in terms of the ways they present themselves to the world through their manner of dress, behavior, physical comportment, and so forth. Both distinguish between a person's biological sex (male or female) and gender identity (masculine…
after affect from the discrimination she faced from gender testing. Gender testing is yet another way that women are discriminated against in sport. Female athletes are forced to live up to society’s norms of femininity, and gender testing has created even more instances where female athletes were discriminated against based on their appearance. Santhi Soundarajan and Caster Semenya are two women; both were competing in international track competitions, whose lives were changed after they were faced…
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effect relationship between testosterone and aggression. However, in humans this isn’t as clear cut, a relationship is shown but there is no clear cause and effect. So it stands to reason that this study cannot be applicable to human behaviour. Tests have shown that increased levels of testosterone in men are associated with aggression and antisocial behaviour. This was demonstrated by Olweus (1988) who has shown that adolescent boys who have higher levels of testosterone were more likely to behave…