SAFE SEX SUMMARY

The discussion I had with my dad went well, considering how close my dad and I are it wasn’t hard talking about any of these subjects. We didn’t really talk about one specific thing, but we coverd pretty much everything, and talked about it all. He seemed to focus mostly on when you have sex with someone, and you are not married to or together in a serious relation ship it can be hard. Especially at a young age he said it can ruin reputations, and not only that can ruin what you have with someone or even how they think about you. He said that everyone is different, and everyones body is different, you cant judge someone based souly on their actions. He said safe sex is very important. He said that if you mess up not only will it change your life but it will make it so hard on you, not just as a normal person, he said you will have to drop out of school, it will be hard to get a job, youll need to support your child and you wont have the money for it. Basically if you mess up with sex at a young age, you really messed up. He said number one. There is no reason to have sex at such a young age. Two- if you are going to not using protection is just stupid. He said that not matter what you do there is always that chance no matter what, and the risk is not worth the reward, ever. We discussed STD’s and he said it short and simple he said, if your not having sex you don’t have to worry about aids, and some of the other nasty STD’s you can get from sex. He said it may be uncomfortable but just simply ask whoever you are going to be doing stuff with, if they have any, he said it can be awkward so when you say it maybe say it in a joking manner and laugh at it, but its better to be safe then sorry. We talked about body image because my sister was in the room and she was saying body image is a huge thing for girls. We discussed that you can litteraly ruin a persons life by bullying someone about their image. You cant take back words and if you say something now, you may regret it later. The