Equality of Others
(I am not separate from the rest)
This is a deep insight which only the truly successful and wise ones keep at heart. Commonly people believe that they are separate and cut off from the rest because they are individuals. True knowledge will tell you that everything is interconnected and success comes from acknowledging that you are not separate but one with the forces of life and the universe.
Belonging is not fitting in. In fact, fitting in is the greatest barrier to belonging. Fitting in, I’ve discovered during the past decade of research, is assessing situations and groups of people, then twisting yourself into a human pretzel in order to get them to let you hang out with them. Belonging is something else entirely—it’s showing up and letting yourself be seen and known as you really are—love of gourd painting, intense fear of public speaking and all. -Brené Brown
Examples of feeling separate from the rest
In the bible in the book of Luke Chapter 18 verse 11 (Luke 18:11) it says: 11"The Pharisee stood and was praying this to himself: 'God, I thank You that I am not like other people: swindlers, unjust, adulterers, or even like this tax collector.
People with disabilities feel like they are separate from the rest because they are different from the rest. I know at least one person that used to feel that way
The song “The Storm Inside of You” explains on how people feel separate from the rest of the others and helps you cope with feeling different from the rest because it worked with my friend that tried to commit suicide before she her this song and now she feels like that she isn’t left out and feels like she fits in with her problems.
Examples of not feeling separate from the rest
To me most people doesn’t feel separate from the rest because they are like most of the rest of the community. They don’t feel separate from the rest because they probably think that they have it better than the people that have disabilities like mental disabilities, physical disabilities, and emotional disabilities
Ways to calm down to feel like you are with the rest
Watch “Calm Down” on GodTube the website for it is; http://www.godtube.com/watch/?v=99M0BFNU http://rescomp.stanford.edu/~cheshire/EinsteinQuotes.html collected quotes from Albert Einstein that I thought would help to feel better about yourself http://www.swamij.com/index.htm http://www.life-with-confidence.com/feel-like-an-outsider.html
5 ways to be happy with you that leads up to fit in with the rest http://lifestyle.iloveindia.com/lounge/how-to-feel-good-about-yourself-4128.html http://coachingtohappiness.com/happy-life-quotes.html https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/emotional-fitness/201103/10-ways-feel-better-about-yourself http://www.abundancetapestry.com/how-to-love-yourself-in-17-ways/ http://www.sparkpeople.com/blog/blog.asp?post=do_you_ever_feel_like_you_dont_belong Ways to be yourself to belong
(the meanings is on the website: http://www.thebridgemaker.com/how-to-stop-trying-so-hard-or-just-be-who-you-are/)
a. Willingness to be yourself
b. Care less of what people say about you
c. What do you see in yourself
d. Relax and rejoice
e. Set a new rhythm
Bibliography
http://www.dumblittleman.com/2009/12/20-powerful-beliefs-that-will-push-you.html http://www.godtube.com/watch/?v=99M0BFNU http://biblehub.com/luke/18-11.htm http://www.swamij.com/index.htm http://www.life-with-confidence.com/feel-like-an-outsider.html http://lifestyle.iloveindia.com/lounge/how-to-feel-good-about-yourself-4128.html http://coachingtohappiness.com/happy-life-quotes.html https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/emotional-fitness/201103/10-ways-feel-better-about-yourself http://www.abundancetapestry.com/how-to-love-yourself-in-17-ways/