Adoption is a forgotten option. When most women become pregnant they feel that only have two options, have the baby or have an abortion. Adoption is often forgotten in these important moments because it is not talked about enough. “If mothers knew just how great adoption can be the rate of abortion could be drastically reduced in the United States” (Babb 250). There are many benefits of adoption for the child, birth parents, and adoptive families.
The most obvious reason adoption is great is because it brings a child into this world, as opposed to being aborted, or brought into a family who is unable to care for the child. The majority of domestic adoptions is in relation to teen pregnancy. Children having children. Teen mothers and fathers, for the most part, are not ready to raise a child when they themselves are still children. They know that they are not ready to feed, clothe, or even take care of their baby. For the expectant parents and the child adoption is the best and safest option for the mother to choose. Pregnancy is an emotional time for the birth-mother. When that mother is a teen, the emotional stress doubles due to the fact that she is so unsure if she can raise a child, or if it would be better for her child to have a family that was prepared for this life changing event in every aspect. The child deserves to be placed with a family that is stable, both financially and emotionally and is ready to devote their life to this child.
Adoption is also a chance for the birth-mother to make a difference in that child's life and the life of the adoptive parents. It gives purpose to the birth-mother's life and may redirect the path that the teen is taking. If the adoption is and open adoption, then the birth-mother is allowed to follow the life of that child and still be a part of his/her life. This type of adoption helps heal the pain and puts the birth-mother at peace knowing the sacrifice she made was the was the right choice for everyone. Not only does it give the birth-mother the feeling of peace it allows the child to grow up knowing that they were loved from the beginning.
As stated earlier, adoption is often the overlooked choice for some birth-mothers. Some times they choose abortion which gives no one the choice of a normal life. Larry Ott wrote an article about his own adoption when he was a child. He spoke of his own birth-mother's choice, the choice she made to give birth and allow him live, rather than the choice she could have made to end his life through abortion. He stated, “The theory that adopted children feel rejected is not true. I feel grateful to the woman
Parsons ENG 111-47 Cassie Plott November 13, 2012 The Emotional Damage Caused by Adoption: Real or Forced? When people in today’s day and age think about adoption they think about someone adopting a baby from another country. I think that people assume that it is something that happens and there are no complications with adopting a child. Most people do not thinking about what state of mind that the child is in, how it will react to certain things, and what the child’s weaknesses and touchy…
that actually conceived a child. Their genes and DNA are in that child’s genes. Adoptive parents take full responsibility of a child that is not theirs. For whatever reason they may have whether it be that they can’t conceive themselves or they want to help a child in foster care by adopting, they go through a process to legally be the guardians of that child. They house, feed and love them as if they were their own. Foster parents take on the responsibility of a child for a limited amount of time…
A new Adoption Act for the new Millennium Acting Principal Family Court Judge Paul von Dadelszen1 1. Introduction Making an adoption order can be a very happy occasion for a judge. For once we are not solely focussed on dealing with the consequences of the breakdown of a relationship. In fact, we are making a family. At the same time, we recognise that adoption is one of the most significant decisions we can make. that is in the best interests and for the welfare of the child involved…
Alma Lopez English 101 Transracial Adoption Transracial adoption, simply put, is the adoption of children with a different ethnicity, or racial background than that of the adoptive parents. The media portrays transracial adoption as problematic primarily because a number of celebrities tend to adopt children from other countries rather than the children who are in need within their own country of origin. In addition, the media portrays transracial adoption as the latest “fad” primarily because…
Freshman Seminar Pd.1 14 January 2013 Adoption People always think to themselves “Is adoption a good or bad thing?”. Adoption is a very serious matter. Children are adopted at all different ages whether it’s young or old. Adoption takes a toll on kids who are adopted and the parents that are adopting them. Most children are very anxious to be adopted, but in some cases the child or young adult doesn’t like the foster parents. There are some cases were the child or young adult doesn’t know they were…
Victoria Allen Dr. Hart ENG 111 13 September 2012 Domestic Adoption: How to Become a Child’s Hero According to the United States Department of Health and Human Services, 114,562 American children were in foster care awaiting adoption in 2009(2). Children that are taken from their parents for any number of reasons all share one common desire: to find a forever home with a family that loves them unconditionally. Even newborns that never have the chance to meet or bond with their birth parents…
International Adoption Experience: Do They Live Happily Ever After? Taylor & Francis Group, LLC This study describes the fact of parents who adopted children internationally and their now adult adopted children giving the affect of international adoption on their lives. The regional researchers explored some information that include adaptation of the child and family, difficulties that parents and child met, influence on various aspects of their lives, the relationship between child and parents…
A FActSheet For FAmilieS Ê 1994 Transracial and Transcultural Adoption Transracial or transcultural adoption means placing a child who is of one race or ethnic group with adoptive parents of another race or ethnic group. In the United States these terms usually refer to the placement of children of color or children from another country with Caucasian adoptive parents. People choose to adopt transracially or transculturally for a variety of reasons. Fewer young Caucasian children are…
52 weeks adoption leave. To qualify employees must have worked continuously for their employer for 26 weeks ending with the week in which they are notified of being matched with a child for adoption. Up to ten keep in touch days can be worked during the period of adoption leave. Employees may be entitled to 39 weeks of statutory adoption pay. An eligible employee can take up to 52 weeks adoption leave. This is made up of 26 weeks Ordinary Adoption Leave and 26 weeks Additional Adoption Leave. To…
Reaction Paper on Adoptions Marilyn Smith Northeastern State University Adoptions Learning lots of things in this work shop about adoptions opened my eyes to a few things I would like to discuss in this paper. One is understanding that all adoptions are a legal process. Another one would be the different types of adoptions whether, it is a voluntary, public, kinship, and international, open or closed each one of these has stipulations. Last but not least hearing…