I became aware of my identity when I was five years old in pre-kindergarten. I went to a catholic school that consisted of mostly whites. My best friend at the time was a white girl named Mallory Myers. We hung out all the time and stayed the night at each other’s homes. This one particular day Mallory had a birthday party/sleepover. I was the first person to arrive. Other parents started to drop off their children. Two of the parents saw me there and I overheard them say, “what’s that black girl doing here?” Mallory’s mom starting talking to them and the next thing I knew my daddy was at the front door telling me to get my things. I did not understand what was going on at the time, but I did not ask my dad any questions on the way home and he was silent the entire time. When I returned to school, Mallory was looking sad, I asked, “what’s wrong with you?” She replied, “my mommy said I can’t play with you anymore, she said you’re black and we can’t play together anymore.” It was that day, I realized that the color of my skin mattered. Although I was young, I felt pain behind that incident.
The dimension of diversity that I have difficulty accepting in other people is sexual orientation. I know that I should not feel differently and judge people who are homosexuals, but I do feel that it is wrong. I am a firm believer in God and my belief is that homosexuality is against God’s will. We all do things that are wrong at times, but I would never want anyone justifying my wrong-doing. I do not treat them any differently, but some of the judgments that I make is that homosexuals should not be allowed to marry or be in position at church. I had to realize that I am supposed to love and respect them just like anyone else. They want to be treated equally just like blacks want to have equality with whites. The dimension that has had an impact on my life would have to be race. Working with and attending school with people of other races and ethnicities have helped me tremendously.
In the documentary film “skin deep”, some of the students fell into what I call a “trap”. They could only go by and feel what they experienced in their life. Their family had certain values and beliefs. One of the students called blacks “niggers” just because her friends did. Another white student admitted to calling blacks “niggers”, which a lot of whites will not admit to it. One of the students went on to say that people are affected by internalized racism. Having a racist attitude against people of your own race can happen. In the film, a student said that white were taught that they were better than everyone else. One thing that made sense to me that the white boy emphasized is, do not categorize all white people, if you are going to say that you hate racism. All whites are not bad, just like all blacks are not bad. One of the black students said that he can go rob a bank or shoplift and everyone will think that is how all blacks are. One of the black female students was upset, because she wanted the white students to admit that even if they were not the ones that participated in being racist, they are still benefiting from it.
Diversity to me means
Week 17 journal Steve Sterling At home tonight due to contracting a stomach Ulcer I would normally be at college but the pain is unbearable to attend my course. I feel a bit guilty as I thought this week I was to attend a conference in Birmingham, This is not the case the conference is the 14th February 2013. Went to the dreaded A+E tonight and I was seen in no rush but got given some anti biotic and strong pain killers. How this illness has impacted my life at a time when my social input…
Esra Kahyaoglu B00392196 Assignment #1: A Day of Self Observation and Awareness A Day Of Self Observation and Awareness After I read the structure of our first assignment, I completely tried to give attention to my behaviors that I develop when I was negative, critical, and / or judgmental. I realized that I could be very judgmental to my housemates about their behaviors when we are discussing the house issues. Because of being only girl in the house, we have difference of opinion about some different…
differently The last thing to talk about is probably one of the most important: if you could go back and do it all again, what would you differently? Self-awareness is a key trait in critical thinking and personal growth. Knowing where you failed or flubbed, where you succeeded, and what you would do again if you had the chance, can demonstrate your awareness and lessons learned. Did you learn any shortcuts through the project? Did you learn any new skills, or any traits about yourself you didn’t realize…
Theme – Lack of Self-Awareness Definition of the theme and its development through the play: * In Othello, characters not only deceive others, but deceive themselves. They lack self-awareness in that they fail to see or acknowledge their own flaws and weaknesses, and they never see themselves as completely as others perceive them. The truth is likely to destroy either their contentment or their perceptions of themselves * This theme is mainly developed through the major characters…
assignment is highlighting the importance of self-awareness and interpersonal skills within the early child care setting. The rights of the child within the ECCE. How to communicate effectively with children their families and other colleagues and how this benefits all involved. How being part of a team within the ECCE benefits and what regulations are put in place to ensure quality of education and the quality of the child care setting and facilities. Self-Awareness is the understanding of your own personality…
SELF AWARENESS EXERSICE # 1. For this exercise I chose my current organization U.P.S. #1. My attitudes and feelings towards U.P.S are great, due to the fact that every morning we start our meetings with the phrase “safe by choice not by chance”. They care about their people and they let them know on a daily basis. I have these feelings partly because the few jobs I have carried I have never had an employer been more involved in their worker’s safety. #2. My level of participation in my company…
Self-Awareness Analysis Student BSHS/465 March 19, 2015 Instructor Self-Awareness Analysis An emotionally intelligent individual manages personal situations and relationships with balance and care. Daniel Goleman, a psychologist and author, believes the four domains of emotional intelligence are self-awareness, self-management, empathy, and the combination of the above. When these four domains work congruently it stabilizes an individual in both work and home relationship (Goleman, 2013). A human…
truly offer a thorough explanation of what makes up EQ. Self awareness, self-regulation, self-motivation, empathy, & effective relationships are the five competencies that make up emotional intelligence in a professional or social context. The following is description of each competency and the each one plays in a person’s EQ. Self awareness is the foundation and, arguably the most important, competency of the five. Self awareness is embracing who you are as a person. Also, effectively identifying…
------------------------------------------------- Awareness From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia "Aware" redirects here. For other uses, see Aware (disambiguation). | This article needs additional citations for verification. Please help improve this article by adding citations to reliable sources. Unsourced material may be challenged and removed. (March 2009) | Awareness is the state or ability to perceive, to feel, or to be conscious of events, objects, or sensory patterns. In this level…