How to Settle Deputes Without Violence
Human interaction can be difficult, if the person you are talking to disagrees with you that you passionately support it may come to a conflict. If that other person loves to fight than things may turn out ugly. So here are the steps or pointers about what to do when you are in a fight. The first thing to do is either take a step back to clam down because the first thing that comes with a conflict is often rage. So pause and back up and calm down the after you have calmed down a bit make sure if you want to continue with the discussion or leave it alone. If you wanna continue with the fight or if the other person wants to continue then either listen to him about what he/she has to say or you can tell him/her about what you wanna say. While talking to the other person try not to make allot of threatening body movements because that could escalate the tension between you and the other person. Lastly if you both are still mad or not satisfied with the other persons answer then you should compromise and find out a way you both could walk out without losing. Another way of resolving the conflict or depute is thinking on their perspective. They may be having problems in their life that made him frustrated to the point of taking it out on you and where even the smallest things will make him go off. Keep in mind that you both are human beings and have feelings and have people that care about you. If something happened to you how would those people feel. One of the most important reasons to stay calm is because you don't know about the other person, he may have a violent past or may have even a weapon on him. Think about what you would gain out of this. You either